Benevolent Leaders employ multiple tactics in their campaigns to win converts. Benevolence begins with awareness. You can’t be proactive in approach to things if you’re not aware that they’re there!
Holistic orientation is an important component in the human • dog relationship — whatever the function of the dog. It is your role as the human who has brought the dog into your life [and presumably into your home].
Often I am asked about various modalities so I thought since I hadn’t done so before, I’d write them here. I’ll be covering a wide array but today I’ll start with homeopathy and flower essences, specifically Bach Flower Essences.
Essentially if there is a conflict in a relationship, whether between a person and a pet or a parent and a child or a boss and an employee or a customer and a cashier or…you get the idea, conflict suggests imbalance. Imbalance affects your mood and affected moods can effect behavior and certain behaviors dogs do annoy us.
If our being annoyed causes more imbalance because of the stress the dog feels from being a source of disappointment, and dealing with your reactivity, the benefit of a remedy is to balance so stress is reduced and improved relations occur.
This is not like taking an aspirin to eliminate a headache but more like learning how to balance on a a see saw or balance board.Ask yourself what behavior your dog is projecting — overly confident, very shy, territorial, fearful, possessive, restless, etc., — and review the recommended essence and the goal for what your pet will tip over towards.
It’s important to become more observant about the behaviors your trying to address so you can be more aware of even minute measures of change and to be flexible and patient in your approach. Don’t define them as human emotions, just observe actual behaviors — outward or inward ones.
If you’re anticipating stress (i.e., HOLIDAYS!!!!), Rescue Remedy will help you cope! And deliver a more patient you who can practice The Six Pillars of Dog Training Wisdom and become ever more so the Benevolent Leader.
More holistic thoughts coming soon.